Do You Have Enough Belief In Yourself.Dr Sammy D.James

Do you have enough belief in yourself or do you need a little work on building your self confidence?

If so, do not worry about it, we all could use a little more self confidence. Are you the type of persona who takes risks or do you avoid all risk taking just for the fear of failing and wanting to stay comfortable.

Are you living the life you truly love or are you just content and comfortable.

Believe it or not, most people are just living mediocre lives that they do not love. They are living like zombies and working a job just because they feel like that is what they are supposed to be doing. Most people are scared to pursue their goals and passion for fear of failing.

So when you answer this question "Do you have enough belief in yourself?" Take an honest look at your life. What would you love to do if you knew there was absolutely no way you could fail?

There are personal development programs and books that can assist you in your journey. If you already do not possess some motivational cd's or books I highly recommend you purchase some today.

When you spend time listening to the cd's or reading the books, this will help you build your self confidence. Plus they will motivate you to take action and move towards your goals.

How would you like to live an empowered life filled with belief in yourself to tackle anything? Would you like to live the life you envisioned for yourself and always knew you wanted? Yes we can have what we desire if you have enough belief in yourself.

Sit down for a moment find a quiet space and go inside to think about what you really would like to be do have. What makes you happy with just the thought of it? Can you see yourself doing whatever it is? Are you getting excited about the possibility of it becoming a reality? Ok now do you have enough belief in yourself to move forward?

Write down your goal or vision in complete details just like you seen it in your mind. What would it take to make the vision become a reality? Begin to take action at once, without action you will never get the results you desire.

Do not look at it in a negative aspect. When you begin moving forward always look at everyday in a positive aspect. When we begin to question our belief in ourselves it can damage our ego and cause us to never set goals again.

Stay away from images of you failing and not reaching your goals. As you continue to have faith and belief in yourself things will come easier for you. Anyone can learn how to develop enough belief in themselves. Just like anything else, it just takes practice and it must become a new habit.

Once you begin the journey and begin noticing the changes in your self confidence your life will become easier in all aspects. You will be very grateful you began the personal development journey.

So quit making excuses and stop letting people tell you what you can or can not do. Begin to have enough belief in yourself to pursue whatever it is you desire.

Whatever the mind of man can conceive and believe it can achieve Napoleon Hill .

How to Make People Believe You
How this is done really is through the power of your own confidence and when you are going to try and make people believe you, you need to be able to be convincing. It is funny how the two c's always come together, and when trying to make people believe you, you need to be confident.

This is really one of the more important elements that you need to take into consideration when talking about the power of persuasion. We are not talking about being a salesman, but we are more into the topic of how you can make yourself a much more persuasive person. You do not have to be selling anything, but in the end of the day, what you can be doing is to make yourself a more confident person, increase your magnetic personality and have people not doubt you. Life will go along much easier when you are talking about something, and people actually believe you.

So how do you get people to believe you? Well the process is all about mental ability and breaking many psychological barriers that you have within you and they could have stretched all the way back to when you were a child. The first thing you need to do is to actually be able to convince yourself and there are many levels to this. The first level is to convince yourself that you are a person that has the abilities necessary to be a good person, and the first thing you need to do is to actually be able to stop criticizing yourself, and this is really the more important factor to include in your research when talking about mental abilities. The main problem is that for the most part, people seem to not believe in their own abilities.

Having that ability is perhaps one of the more important things you need to consider and the last thing you need to have is the ability to convince yourself. I think the first person and the most critical of all people should be yourself, and when you can convince yourself, you can convince anyone, and make sure you do not try to approach topics that you like, but other topics as well. The method is like this. Let us say that you do not like vegetables and you had to convince yourself to eat broccoli.

Your most hated of the vegetable group. If you can convince yourself of the fact that you need to eat those vegetables, you would be surprised how a little mental convincing can actually make something that actually tastes horrible to you, taste a bit better. When the process keeps going on and on, you notice that the broccoli starts to taste better as you go along, and before you know it, the subconscious mind actually makes you believe that it is the most fantastic piece of vegetable in the world, and this is how the power of confidence, the power of persuasion and the power of belief can change things.

Accept Failure and Be a Much More Confident Person

Now, the wonder of failure is that it manifests itself in many, many ways, and the one thing you need to keep note of in your life are the ways that you are going to be able to have failure. It is the one part of life that is really a double edged sword you need to use to your advantage. Some have said that we give fear a name when we learn from it and move on to become a much better person in life. This is called experience and experience is the best thing to have when you are talking about growing as a person and being much, much more confident in life.

Remember that failure has affected everyone in the world, from the rich, the famous, the smart, the poor and the bewildered. All people of all stages in life have come across failure, because perfection is not the word that you can associate with the human race. Even machines are not perfect, and this is only because they are built by human hands. So, one thing to note if you are trying to gain back your confidence, and your self assurance, you have to look at failure as another kind of animal. You need to tame it, You need to control it.

One day it will bite you, but remember another saying - once bitten, twice shy. If you are always weeping over the blunders that you made in your existence, you will never get somewhere. Always keep in mind that ancient times slip-ups and failures cannot be upturned and what's done is done. Thus it is no use crying over spilt milk. A convinced personality until the end of time looks past those failures in his life. After all, failures are juts an essential part of becoming triumphant. If you are unsuccessful once you should take that failure as a education tutorial.

This is really what sets apart people in the world. But of course, it is not easy to actually accept failure as a person. How does one accept failure? What you need to do in reality is to actually open to the idea that failure is something you must have. We are all people that we are because of the mistakes that we make, and how we view that mistake is what really this editorial is talking about. Look out for stupid and negative emotions, what we call the freezing terminology when it comes to how emotions lock you up and prevent you from moving on in life.

What you need to do is to either continue the momentum you had in life before the mistake came upon you or find the inspiration to find it again. The best ways to do this is to look to the areas in your life that will motivate you into being a better person and this can be from your loved ones or the success that you can potentially be when you get up, dust yourself off and attack life with a renewed vigor.

Dr.Sammy D.James/President Founder /of W V M I.World Vision Ministries International.